Remember back when I said "we shelter our child" and I'm OK with that....well, it would seem that while we still shelter him, this year, we are also trying to give him more age appropriate freedoms.
Ugh.
I hate this.
I'm just going to state this very plainly....I WANT MY BABY BACK. I don't like this tweenager phase where he's still boyish and enjoys childish things but thinks he can run around town with nothing but a pack of 11 year old boys and a broke down cell phone. Yeah no.
We've loosened the reigns on the cell phone rule and he's now allowed to have a sleepover at some place other than a relatives house. And for the very first time, he's going to camp.
Well shit.
This Mama is STRESSING. Tomorrow is his first day of day camp and he will be gone from 8am to roughly 6pm all week. I'm having NIGHTMARES y'all. NIGHT-MARES. I just can't deal. He will be out of my hands all day long and I will have NO clue what is happening, how he's doing/feeling, if he's safe and happy....ugh, pray for me.
This is why I don't send my child off to school. I like having him around (most days) and I like knowing exactly what is happening with my kid. The unknowns of camp are killing me...I'm dying a slow, painful, tortured MOM DEATH.
Homeschooling means I don't ever have to leave my child if I don't want to. But I know all the homeschooling Mama's here are like "SCREW THAT!". We are so busy with full calendars of fun, enriching activities and yes- sometimes our homeschooled children are away from the loving bosom of their Mom's. But for a whole week?!? All day?
I'm struggling.
I suppose that this is just another step in life as we give our child a few more freedoms. But why does it have to be so sad and painful? Seriously- why?
Camp is hard y'all.
HARD.
Working Wife and Mother raising one homeschooled boy and one crazy rat terrier. Follow along on the journey of a modern day traditional housewife who believes in putting her man and her child before herself. That home is the best place for her son to learn and that a woman's place is at the heart of her family.
Sunday, July 10, 2016
Friday, July 8, 2016
Lazy Mama's Vegetarian Lasagna
The other day the husband called me at 4pm to say he was on his way home and he was HUNGRY. Like, this man was calling ahead to find out what was for dinner, HUNGRY. Less than 30 minutes later he walks through the door and is ready to eat. Meanwhile, I don't usually start making dinner until around 5pm and I was still knee deep in my work from home stuff while trying to get the kiddo to sit down and finish his schoolwork for the day.
BWHAHAHAHAHA....silly husband.
So clearly dinner was NOT ready at 4:30pm and on top of that- I really had NO CLUE what I was going to make. My plan for that day was to put something in the crockpot but as any busy Mama knows- sometimes even this task is insurmountable. After staring at the fridge for way too long and hoping and praying something would magically appear- I pulled together this really great and vegetarian meal that left my HANGRY HUSBAND full and satisfied.
Lazy Mama's Vegetarian Lasagna
1 large package (18oz or more) cheese ravioli *cheese & spinach is good as well
1 jar marinara sauce or leftover homemade sauce
1 onion, diced
6 cloves garlic
1 teaspoon italian seasoning
2 cups grated mozzarella cheese
1 cup REAL grated Parmesan cheese
olive oil
salt & pepper to taste
Step 1: Saute your diced onions and chopped garlic in a little olive oil. You can also use avocado or coconut oil but for this dish- I like the flavor of the olive oil better. Add your teaspoon of italian seasoning and salt and pepper to taste.
*If you are meat eaters- now would be the time to add in some ground beef or maybe some italian sausage. You won't need much as this should NOT be a meat filled dish. Cook it with your onions and garlic and you're good to go.
Step 2: Set aside approximately 1 cup of your marinara sauce.
When your onions and garlic are cooked and translucent, add in your marinara sauce (NOT the sauce you reserved & set to the side) to your pan. You do not need to really boil this or cook it- but rather just warm it up while you get out your other ingredients. Seriously, don't worry about this much.
*This is the reason I always make a double batch of marinara when cooking spaghetti because I can then store the leftovers in a canning jar in my fridge for up to one week and use for another dish. Perfection!
But if you don't make your own, please just use a good quality, organic jarred sauce. It'll be OK- I promise.
Step 3: Remember that saved marinara that you didn't add to your pan? Now you will pour it evenly in a glass 9X13. If you feel the need to spray it down first, go for it. But really- as long as your marinara covers the bottom, you're good to go!
Step 4: Build your lasagna!
Start by placing a layer of your ravioli over the marinara. Then grab your sauce from the pot and pour over the top. Add half the mozzarella and half the Parmesan.
Repeat until you've used all your ravioli.
*And yes, you can totally use fake parm from the green canister but trust me on this one, the real deal is SO much better!
Step 5: Bake at 350 for approximately 30 minutes. Everything is pretty much cooked, so your just combining flavors and melting the cheeses here.
When you take it out of the oven, let it rest for a few minutes. This is a good time to make a salad or some other side dish.
And that's it. You're totally done! How easy was this business?!?
Tuesday, July 5, 2016
If Your Dad is On Fire....Spray Him With the Hose
And that pretty much sums up our 4th of July this year.
But seriously, this holiday is a pretty big deal for us and we really enjoy letting loose and having a good time. We always host a BBQ and each year our crowd changes. Family, friends, neighbors, lots of kids, no kids- everyone is welcome.
This year we kept it pretty small and about as "tame" as we get. Probably something about the holiday falling on a Monday this year and everyone having to get up and work the next day....but either way, it wasn't as big as years past. However, something truly awesome came from this low key night of blowing shit up-
The Homeschooled Housewife's Rules for Fireworks Safety 101
#1- If your dad is on fire, spray him with this hose.
Seems like good advice, no?
Safety is key to a enjoying any holiday involving explosives and fire. This means we always have a bucket of water nearby for fireworks that might not extenquish completely as well as the hose laying in the lawn on "standby". The kiddo was playing around with the hose and wasting water so I said to him that he could only use the hose if his Dad was on fire.
Words to live by y'all.
#2- Don't put the fire stick in your face.
By "fire stick" I mean the punk that you keep lit to aid you in lighting all those fireworks. For some reason, the husband and kiddo rotate between using the punk and using those long lighters. As the night wears on, I find that they aren't as "careful" with the punk, so a reminder on what NOT to do with it was clearly in order.
#3- Move your body.
So yeah. When you light the firework, you need to then MOVE YOUR BODY out of the way. Like, can we please NOT stand right next to it. Thank you very much.
#4- Cover your drink.
This one is really for the grown ups out there. When you are lighting off the BIG stuff and it goes way up high, it will inevitably come on down again. What goes up, must come down mmkay....so make sure you keep your drink free from falling debris and simply put your hand over it.
Drinking firework shrapnel is never a good idea.
#5- Don't light fireworks in your hand.
You would think this would be a no brainer, I mean...really. But sadly, some folks just don't know that you should NOT light the fireworks in your bare hand and then toss them. You should also not hold onto lit fireworks.
This is how people loose their bits and pieces.
#6- Don't be stupid.
And my final piece of advice works for all things. But most importantly, when you have children, a large group of people, alcohol and fireworks- you should take extra precaution. Be careful y'all and don't be stupid.
***While this post came from a funny saying during our 4th of July holiday- the advice is sound. Please know that we are extremely vigilant and safety minded. We want to have a fun holiday and have everyone go to bed exhausted, happy and in one piece. Fireworks ain't no joke y'all. So if you don't know what you're doing- then just say no.
And remember- If your Dad is on fire, spray him with the hose!
But seriously, this holiday is a pretty big deal for us and we really enjoy letting loose and having a good time. We always host a BBQ and each year our crowd changes. Family, friends, neighbors, lots of kids, no kids- everyone is welcome.
This year we kept it pretty small and about as "tame" as we get. Probably something about the holiday falling on a Monday this year and everyone having to get up and work the next day....but either way, it wasn't as big as years past. However, something truly awesome came from this low key night of blowing shit up-
The Homeschooled Housewife's Rules for Fireworks Safety 101
#1- If your dad is on fire, spray him with this hose.
Seems like good advice, no?
Safety is key to a enjoying any holiday involving explosives and fire. This means we always have a bucket of water nearby for fireworks that might not extenquish completely as well as the hose laying in the lawn on "standby". The kiddo was playing around with the hose and wasting water so I said to him that he could only use the hose if his Dad was on fire.
Words to live by y'all.
#2- Don't put the fire stick in your face.
By "fire stick" I mean the punk that you keep lit to aid you in lighting all those fireworks. For some reason, the husband and kiddo rotate between using the punk and using those long lighters. As the night wears on, I find that they aren't as "careful" with the punk, so a reminder on what NOT to do with it was clearly in order.
#3- Move your body.
So yeah. When you light the firework, you need to then MOVE YOUR BODY out of the way. Like, can we please NOT stand right next to it. Thank you very much.
#4- Cover your drink.
This one is really for the grown ups out there. When you are lighting off the BIG stuff and it goes way up high, it will inevitably come on down again. What goes up, must come down mmkay....so make sure you keep your drink free from falling debris and simply put your hand over it.
Drinking firework shrapnel is never a good idea.
#5- Don't light fireworks in your hand.
You would think this would be a no brainer, I mean...really. But sadly, some folks just don't know that you should NOT light the fireworks in your bare hand and then toss them. You should also not hold onto lit fireworks.
This is how people loose their bits and pieces.
#6- Don't be stupid.
And my final piece of advice works for all things. But most importantly, when you have children, a large group of people, alcohol and fireworks- you should take extra precaution. Be careful y'all and don't be stupid.
***While this post came from a funny saying during our 4th of July holiday- the advice is sound. Please know that we are extremely vigilant and safety minded. We want to have a fun holiday and have everyone go to bed exhausted, happy and in one piece. Fireworks ain't no joke y'all. So if you don't know what you're doing- then just say no.
And remember- If your Dad is on fire, spray him with the hose!
Friday, July 1, 2016
The Great Hair Cut
For almost five years now I have been growing my hair out. I initially started growing long (see VERY long) hair because the husband loves long hair. Eh- all men really....but I truthfully started this journey to please my man.
Gasp! That's right....a woman intentionally doing something just TO PLEASE A MAN?!? Say it isn't so....feminists flame on because that is the cold, hard truth. We ladies in love occasionally do stuff just to make our husband's happy. True story.
But then y'all....then it became SO much more. I loved this persona of long haired bombshell if you will...whenever I took the time to really style it, I always received compliments. And I liked it. Who wouldn't right? But in the midst of this small superficial shift in my personality, I decided that something MUCH better than compliments could come from all this hair.
And so it was that about 2 years into my "hair journey", I decided that I was going to donate it to charity. Because I could always grow more but not everyone else had this ability and as I had learned, HAIR IS vital to feeling beautiful.
Y'all. If my hair could make someone else feel beautiful- I was gonna make that happen.
I Googled all the places that one donates hair and what I found out is that not all of them are the same. I wanted my hair to be 100% FREE to whomever would be receiving it. This was my gift to them and I certainly didn't want ANYONE to be profiting off of that gift.
I decided to donate to Wigs for Kids. I researched their requirements and set about growing my hair even longer so that I wouldn't have to shave my head in order to give this gift. I still wanted hair left on my own head after the donating was done thank you very much.
They needed 12 inches of washed, dried, color free hair. TWELVE INCHES you guys. As someone who's hair grows literally 3 inches per year, this amount seemed impossible. Add into this that one needs to trim up your hair every so often so it will continue to grow and be healthy...yeah, it quite honestly felt like 3 steps forward and 2 steps back. So many times I wanted to give up. SO. MANY. TIMES.
There's plenty of other people who could donate hair after all...
But you guys, not everyone does. If we all adopt this attitude that "someone else will step up and do it" then no one ever really does. Think of all the amazing good things we could do if only we followed through on our best intentions.
So I didn't give up.
Almost five years later, I am happy to say that my 12 inches of hair is on it's way to Wigs for Kids. Some child will hopefully feel just a little bit better and perhaps just a little more beautiful about themselves as they go through a difficult stage in their young lives. And this....gah, THIS is what it's all about.
I encourage every single one of you to donate your hair at least once in your life. Just once. Because that is all it takes to make a big difference in someone else's life. One time.
Together we can make a big impact.
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Gasp! That's right....a woman intentionally doing something just TO PLEASE A MAN?!? Say it isn't so....feminists flame on because that is the cold, hard truth. We ladies in love occasionally do stuff just to make our husband's happy. True story.
But then y'all....then it became SO much more. I loved this persona of long haired bombshell if you will...whenever I took the time to really style it, I always received compliments. And I liked it. Who wouldn't right? But in the midst of this small superficial shift in my personality, I decided that something MUCH better than compliments could come from all this hair.
And so it was that about 2 years into my "hair journey", I decided that I was going to donate it to charity. Because I could always grow more but not everyone else had this ability and as I had learned, HAIR IS vital to feeling beautiful.
Y'all. If my hair could make someone else feel beautiful- I was gonna make that happen.
I Googled all the places that one donates hair and what I found out is that not all of them are the same. I wanted my hair to be 100% FREE to whomever would be receiving it. This was my gift to them and I certainly didn't want ANYONE to be profiting off of that gift.
I decided to donate to Wigs for Kids. I researched their requirements and set about growing my hair even longer so that I wouldn't have to shave my head in order to give this gift. I still wanted hair left on my own head after the donating was done thank you very much.
They needed 12 inches of washed, dried, color free hair. TWELVE INCHES you guys. As someone who's hair grows literally 3 inches per year, this amount seemed impossible. Add into this that one needs to trim up your hair every so often so it will continue to grow and be healthy...yeah, it quite honestly felt like 3 steps forward and 2 steps back. So many times I wanted to give up. SO. MANY. TIMES.
There's plenty of other people who could donate hair after all...
But you guys, not everyone does. If we all adopt this attitude that "someone else will step up and do it" then no one ever really does. Think of all the amazing good things we could do if only we followed through on our best intentions.
So I didn't give up.
Almost five years later, I am happy to say that my 12 inches of hair is on it's way to Wigs for Kids. Some child will hopefully feel just a little bit better and perhaps just a little more beautiful about themselves as they go through a difficult stage in their young lives. And this....gah, THIS is what it's all about.
I encourage every single one of you to donate your hair at least once in your life. Just once. Because that is all it takes to make a big difference in someone else's life. One time.
Together we can make a big impact.
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Birthday Wisdom
I've been a bit MIA this past month over here on the blog. In truth, I've been cutting back my social media and my online presence and trying to spend more time with my boys and family in the REAL and now. Crazy right?!? But don't think I've forgotten about all you wonderful peeps here in computer land!
Let's start July off with something I meant to post here last month, yeah? My 35th birthday was just a few days ago and in honor of my impending "old age", I decided to share some wisdom and words of truth with you all. Here goes, enjoy!
Let's start July off with something I meant to post here last month, yeah? My 35th birthday was just a few days ago and in honor of my impending "old age", I decided to share some wisdom and words of truth with you all. Here goes, enjoy!
IN honor of my special day, I want to share some pearls of wisdom with y'all & hope that you'll join me in celebration of today. Not because it's my birthday (which is nice & all...) but because today is a wonderful day for celebrating. 👊
#1- Hairspray in the can works WAY better than hairspray in the plastic bottle. Sorry ozone- sad but true. Buy the can.
#2- No ones child is perfect, not even yours. You might be tempted to think so on the rare occasion, but the answer is still no. Still not perfect.
#3- Once you hit 25, you should no longer be buying the cheap makeup. Life is too short to look like a wrinkly Oompa Loompa. Buy the good shit, trust me.
#4- You know you've found a good man when he loves you just as much at your worst as he does at your best. Like when your on the table having an emergency c-section & he stands up to watch the birth of his son & after seeing all your INSIDES on your OUTSIDES, still thinks you are beautiful. Hold on to this man. Forever.
#5- Don't wear white to Disneyland. Or to any theme park or fairground for that matter. Just no. Believe me on this one mmkay....
#6- There's a reason DOG spells GOD backwards. Dogs will love you unconditionally, dogs will listen to your prayers & dogs will heal your heart one tiny piece at a time if only you'll let them. Just like God.
#7- Don't waste the calories on bad cake. And yes- there is such a thing as bad cake.
#8- No one died from saying the F word.
#9- You will never be remembered for the superficial. But rather for the way you've made people feel so be careful what you say & do because your actions & words have consequences.
#10- It's ok to say no. To all the things. And you don't even need a reason.
#11- Marriage is forever. Don't make it a prison sentence.
#12- Remove the toxic people from your life & from your children's lives. Not everyone deserves a place at your table.
#13- Flip flops work with every outfit. Every. Single. One
#14- When you are wrong, be quick to apologize. Learn how to offer a sincere & REAL apology & don't be afraid to admit you've made a mistake. We all make mistakes. How you respond in the face of it is what shapes your character.
#15- Love like it's going out of style.
#16- The answer is yes, buy the shoes.
#17- Friendships are hard. Especially women & mommy friendships. Try your best but remember it's better to have a few real friends than a herd of fake ones. Quality not quantity.
#18- Your issues are NOT my issues. Bye Felicia.
#19- Make the effort in your appearance. Not because society tells you to or out of fear of judgment, but because you are worth the effort. When you look good, you feel good. And when in doubt, just buy a FIERCE handbag & call it good.
#20- You are special & loved & important just as you are. The only person you should change for is YOU.
What would you add to this list?
Love to you all!
The Homeschooled Housewife
The Homeschooled Housewife
Friday, June 10, 2016
Parenting Is Hard Yo
So I just want to talk about parenting and judgment for a hot second here. Parenting is hard, like the single most difficult thing I've ever done beyond being a wife. Because Marriage y'all. But here's the thing, we are all in this parenting boat together. So when our kids experience strife with one another, why can't we as grown ass people, handle it calmly and rationally? Why must we become raving lunatics when it comes to our children?
Sometimes our kids suck. Sometimes they make bad choices or are unkind towards others. Our children are not perfect. Nope. And when they make mistakes, it's legit OK for us to call them on it, encourage them to do the right thing, apologize if necessary and move on. What is not OK is for us to behave as if they walk on water and can do no wrong and then project this image towards the outside world. I'm talking about when we "defend" our kids to other parents here when they are clearly in the wrong. It's perfectly acceptable to say that our children are flawed, that we are doing they best we can and that they are still learning.
But you guys....this has not been my experience. When dealing with other Mama's, they become irrational. Full on crazy y'all. How can you have a calm parenting convo with CRAZY? You just can't and so nothing ever gets resolved. Nothing. Ever.
And what exactly does this teach our children?
On the flip side, lets talk about judgment in parenting. So many times people look at the husband and I and make snap judgments about how we parent. Good Lord but I'm sick of this business. We are raising our child with old world values, kindness towards others, manners, respect for your elders and so on. You know, the good stuff from ages gone by. And I can't tell you how many people are SHOCKED by the kiddo's behavior. They weren't expecting him to be so polite, so gracious, so honest and forthcoming.
Hmmm....why? And interesting question for sure. Perhaps they weren't expecting our child to be good? Preconceived notions y'all....
Is my kid perfect? Of course not. Are we perfect parents? Never. Do we look the part of perfection? Nope. But what we are is ACTIVE in our child's life. While we admittedly parent differently than the majority of people do now, we try our best. Parenting is hard enough y'all without being constantly judged for doing things a little out of the mainstream.
Moving forward, here's my hope for us all.
Can we please just chill out a little when it comes to our kids? Everyone is so quick to condemn, to cast judgment, to voice negativity without truly giving each other a chance. Not a single one of us is perfect or has all the answers, on this I think we can agree. So the next time you have conflict with another parent, just take a step back, BREATHE and remember we are in this together. A little grace and understanding will go a long way. And for all that's holy, please try not to cast judgment upon others. We all come from different places and approach this parenting business in a myriad of ways. And that is totally OK.
Parenting is hard yo.
Sometimes our kids suck. Sometimes they make bad choices or are unkind towards others. Our children are not perfect. Nope. And when they make mistakes, it's legit OK for us to call them on it, encourage them to do the right thing, apologize if necessary and move on. What is not OK is for us to behave as if they walk on water and can do no wrong and then project this image towards the outside world. I'm talking about when we "defend" our kids to other parents here when they are clearly in the wrong. It's perfectly acceptable to say that our children are flawed, that we are doing they best we can and that they are still learning.
But you guys....this has not been my experience. When dealing with other Mama's, they become irrational. Full on crazy y'all. How can you have a calm parenting convo with CRAZY? You just can't and so nothing ever gets resolved. Nothing. Ever.
And what exactly does this teach our children?
On the flip side, lets talk about judgment in parenting. So many times people look at the husband and I and make snap judgments about how we parent. Good Lord but I'm sick of this business. We are raising our child with old world values, kindness towards others, manners, respect for your elders and so on. You know, the good stuff from ages gone by. And I can't tell you how many people are SHOCKED by the kiddo's behavior. They weren't expecting him to be so polite, so gracious, so honest and forthcoming.
Hmmm....why? And interesting question for sure. Perhaps they weren't expecting our child to be good? Preconceived notions y'all....
Is my kid perfect? Of course not. Are we perfect parents? Never. Do we look the part of perfection? Nope. But what we are is ACTIVE in our child's life. While we admittedly parent differently than the majority of people do now, we try our best. Parenting is hard enough y'all without being constantly judged for doing things a little out of the mainstream.
Moving forward, here's my hope for us all.
Can we please just chill out a little when it comes to our kids? Everyone is so quick to condemn, to cast judgment, to voice negativity without truly giving each other a chance. Not a single one of us is perfect or has all the answers, on this I think we can agree. So the next time you have conflict with another parent, just take a step back, BREATHE and remember we are in this together. A little grace and understanding will go a long way. And for all that's holy, please try not to cast judgment upon others. We all come from different places and approach this parenting business in a myriad of ways. And that is totally OK.
Parenting is hard yo.
Monday, June 6, 2016
Summer School!
As the school year comes to a close, you may be breathing a sigh of relief. You made it! School is over- YAY! But if you homeschool year round, you know the fun is just beginning.
Summer homeschooling is an odd place. You are most likely much more relaxed in your schooling approach, there's probably less overall "volume" of work to be completed, lots of fun things to do that are only offered during the summer time and of course now you've got to contend with packed venues because the public schoolers are out. And of course, if you belong to any homeschool groups or co-ops, they most likely break for the summer time as well. This means you've got some LONG and potentially BORING days ahead. Ah- the lazy days of summer. But y'all, summer homeschooling is my favorite!
For us personally, summer is our time to relax a bit. Our summer routine has evolved a bit as the kiddo has gotten older but enjoying SUMMER has always been a big priority. We are lucky enough to live in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and can spend pretty much all summer long outside. We go fishing, swimming in rivers and lakes, trail/nature walks, biking, park days, swimming in the backyard pool and such. It is not uncommon for us to take off for the lake when the husband gets home from work and return after 10pm. LOVE THIS! However summer is also the time we play "catch up" and we try to focus on just one or two areas that the kiddo needs improvement in. Sadly for him, that always seems to be math. Well- I suppose it's tragic for us both since I detest math. Blech!
We also take advantage of programs, activities, camps etc that are typically offered during the summer only. Lots of fun stuff going on at our local library, good stuff happening at the YMCA, some pretty amazeballs camps if you're willing to shell out the money and lots of opportunities for some good ole socialization.
Summer is also the time for the kiddo's READING CHALLENGE in which he basically reads as many pages as he can and challenges himself to read new books and authors. Yes there's prizes but he must work for them and trust me when I say that he does. Would you believe this boy child asked me in March if we could set up his Summer Reading Challenge?!? March y'all....He loves this yearly reading challenge and its special because we ONLY do this during the summer.
While the amount of actual book work is minimal compared to what we do during the school year- there's still lots of valuable learning happening here. In fact, I would say that if you participate in any summer activities on the regular, then you too are year round homeschoolers. The learning never stops y'all!
So this all sounds great, but what does it look like? How does it all work out?
Well....in our house the kiddo begins each day with time spent in a workbook. This year, I decided to make it super easy on myself and purchased this Summer Bridge workbook. He will sit down with his breakfast and completes that day's page. Ten minutes tops. From there, he pulls out the work we are focusing on during the summer. Yep, that's right- it's time for math y'all. He is typically finished in less than an hour. While this might not seem like much to you- it's focused, targeted learning. One hour of quality work is worth WAY more than hours upon hours of quantity work. Just keep that in mind mmmkay....
From there, the day is pretty free. We may have an event to go to at the local library, he might have friends over, perhaps watch a movie if it's too hot outside, ride bikes, lounge around and have quiet reading time, we may run errands or do some housework. It's all pretty chill and we try to really embrace the mentality of summer.
To help break up this "monotony" I have strategically planned camps, programs, activities etc throughout the summer. This year the kiddo will be going to a Go Kart camp with a fellow homeschool friend. It's a week long, full days but no overnight, in the middle of July and he is DYING to go. For the first part of the day they will drive and race Go Karts and then after lunch, they have a mechanics course where they learn to fix, repair and work on these machines. Perfection. The best part of homeschooling is combining your child's joys and interests with valuable learning opportunities. If they have fun, the knowledge and information stays with them and it certainly doesn't feel like being at school.
In addition, we are having some friends over for the 4th of July holiday weekend. We go BIG for this holiday and put on our own fireworks show. Basically it's an entire weekend of fun. Major fireworks, camping in the backyard, lots of yummy food, friends, cocktails, kids- oh my word but it is seriously FUN.
As summer winds down, we typically take a short trip before starting on our Fall schedule. We do this AFTER all the public schoolers are back in session and just another one of the MANY benefits to being a homeschooler. It is also our last HURRAH before really getting back into our routine and the kiddo simply loves this final weekend of summer. And you just know that there's plenty of valuable learning happening here too!
So y'all- summer time homeschooling is in reality, pretty darn easy. There's many benefits to keeping a year round schedule, the biggest one being the flexibility it offers. And with a little planning and effort, you can give your kids a super fun summer full of lots of unique learning opportunities. LOVE THAT!
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Summer homeschooling is an odd place. You are most likely much more relaxed in your schooling approach, there's probably less overall "volume" of work to be completed, lots of fun things to do that are only offered during the summer time and of course now you've got to contend with packed venues because the public schoolers are out. And of course, if you belong to any homeschool groups or co-ops, they most likely break for the summer time as well. This means you've got some LONG and potentially BORING days ahead. Ah- the lazy days of summer. But y'all, summer homeschooling is my favorite!
For us personally, summer is our time to relax a bit. Our summer routine has evolved a bit as the kiddo has gotten older but enjoying SUMMER has always been a big priority. We are lucky enough to live in the beautiful Pacific Northwest and can spend pretty much all summer long outside. We go fishing, swimming in rivers and lakes, trail/nature walks, biking, park days, swimming in the backyard pool and such. It is not uncommon for us to take off for the lake when the husband gets home from work and return after 10pm. LOVE THIS! However summer is also the time we play "catch up" and we try to focus on just one or two areas that the kiddo needs improvement in. Sadly for him, that always seems to be math. Well- I suppose it's tragic for us both since I detest math. Blech!
We also take advantage of programs, activities, camps etc that are typically offered during the summer only. Lots of fun stuff going on at our local library, good stuff happening at the YMCA, some pretty amazeballs camps if you're willing to shell out the money and lots of opportunities for some good ole socialization.
Summer is also the time for the kiddo's READING CHALLENGE in which he basically reads as many pages as he can and challenges himself to read new books and authors. Yes there's prizes but he must work for them and trust me when I say that he does. Would you believe this boy child asked me in March if we could set up his Summer Reading Challenge?!? March y'all....He loves this yearly reading challenge and its special because we ONLY do this during the summer.
While the amount of actual book work is minimal compared to what we do during the school year- there's still lots of valuable learning happening here. In fact, I would say that if you participate in any summer activities on the regular, then you too are year round homeschoolers. The learning never stops y'all!

Well....in our house the kiddo begins each day with time spent in a workbook. This year, I decided to make it super easy on myself and purchased this Summer Bridge workbook. He will sit down with his breakfast and completes that day's page. Ten minutes tops. From there, he pulls out the work we are focusing on during the summer. Yep, that's right- it's time for math y'all. He is typically finished in less than an hour. While this might not seem like much to you- it's focused, targeted learning. One hour of quality work is worth WAY more than hours upon hours of quantity work. Just keep that in mind mmmkay....
From there, the day is pretty free. We may have an event to go to at the local library, he might have friends over, perhaps watch a movie if it's too hot outside, ride bikes, lounge around and have quiet reading time, we may run errands or do some housework. It's all pretty chill and we try to really embrace the mentality of summer.
To help break up this "monotony" I have strategically planned camps, programs, activities etc throughout the summer. This year the kiddo will be going to a Go Kart camp with a fellow homeschool friend. It's a week long, full days but no overnight, in the middle of July and he is DYING to go. For the first part of the day they will drive and race Go Karts and then after lunch, they have a mechanics course where they learn to fix, repair and work on these machines. Perfection. The best part of homeschooling is combining your child's joys and interests with valuable learning opportunities. If they have fun, the knowledge and information stays with them and it certainly doesn't feel like being at school.
In addition, we are having some friends over for the 4th of July holiday weekend. We go BIG for this holiday and put on our own fireworks show. Basically it's an entire weekend of fun. Major fireworks, camping in the backyard, lots of yummy food, friends, cocktails, kids- oh my word but it is seriously FUN.
As summer winds down, we typically take a short trip before starting on our Fall schedule. We do this AFTER all the public schoolers are back in session and just another one of the MANY benefits to being a homeschooler. It is also our last HURRAH before really getting back into our routine and the kiddo simply loves this final weekend of summer. And you just know that there's plenty of valuable learning happening here too!
So y'all- summer time homeschooling is in reality, pretty darn easy. There's many benefits to keeping a year round schedule, the biggest one being the flexibility it offers. And with a little planning and effort, you can give your kids a super fun summer full of lots of unique learning opportunities. LOVE THAT!
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