Why?
Perhaps the most asked question rivaled only by the "socialization" issue when it comes to homeschooling. So really- why did we chose to homeschool?
I've talked a bit about it before but the truth is that there's really no one single answer. We homeschool for many different reasons. We value our time as a family, flexibility, we believe the educational system is flawed, less homework or none at all, no early wakeups or late nights, we wanted control over the content of our child's education, the ability to shelter our child, more time to spend on things that are of interest, not worrying about conforming or following rules we don't agree with...see- told you there's lot of reasons why. And that's not even the whole list!
But no where on this list did I mention that we chose to homeschool because we don't like teachers. Not for one single moment has this ever factored into our decision to homeschool.
You see- we LOVE teachers in this house mmkay....we firmly believe that the majority of teachers are doing the best they can in a difficult situation and continue to plug along day in and day out because they care SO much about our children. Tell me- who wouldn't love someone that dedicated?
Teachers are the unsung heroes of our world. They sacrifice, they love, they provide, they heal, they support, they encourage but most importantly- they teach. In an educational system that has not worked for decades, with parents who now rely on schools to parent their children, under extreme financial hardships and the hideousness that is common core- they teach.
Just because we don't personally send our child out into this system doesn't mean we can't understand and appreciate all that you do. So teachers- please hear me when I say this to you:
Our decision to homeschool has nothing to do with you. To the wonderful and dedicated teachers out there we simply say, Thank You.
Working Wife and Mother raising one homeschooled boy and one crazy rat terrier. Follow along on the journey of a modern day traditional housewife who believes in putting her man and her child before herself. That home is the best place for her son to learn and that a woman's place is at the heart of her family.
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Showing posts with label reasons to homeschool. Show all posts
Friday, September 18, 2015
Friday, October 24, 2014
Public School Is Like Playing Russian Roulette
"Mom- how come I don't go to a regular school?"
How do I tell my 9 year old the real reason?
How do I tell him it's because public school isn't safe?
How do I explain to him about bullying and tell him that some kids are truly mean?
How do I tell him that some of his teachers really don't have his best interests in mind?
How do I tell him all the reasons that we have for keeping him at home?
Sometimes I pray for guidance. Sweet Jesus tell me what to do. Most times, it's quiet. So I trust in myself- I listen to my heart as it seizes when I think of sending my baby out the door. I pay attention to the fear that paralyzes me when I imagine all the what-ifs.
And then a moment happens. A tragedy. And I know that those feelings weren't just my feelings after all. They were God's way of saying- LISTEN. Pay attention sweet Mama and don't you send your child, my child- through those public school doors.
It's not safe.
Don't you play Russian Roulette with his education, with his life, with his heart. Don't you do it.
And so, we continue to homeschool. We keep watch over our child and protect his heart and his life because the sad reality is that public schools are simply not safe anymore. Every time our children walk through those doors- there's a chance they won't be coming home. And I know this is an inconvenient truth but it needs to be said. Its hard to hear but it is our nation's reality. Our children are not safe in school, they aren't. So why do we keep sending them there?
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Today's blog post was in response to the tragic school shooting very close to where we live. You can click the link here to read more about this story. The reality is that this is NOT uncommon. School's are no longer safe places for our children to learn. They simply aren't. And this is just one of the MANY reasons why we chose to homeschool.
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